Thanks All,
Cant use ExitApplication as I want to kill the Activity not the app.
The timing of the auto destroy is the issue - my user may end up viewing one activity, goes to another and then back in fast succession before Android even considers killing the first one. As such I was looking at an explicit way to force the pace.
Thanks for the diagram, it's a reaffirmation that my mental image is right.
It's looking like I will need to have some form of a work around for this as relying on Android to destroy the activity isn't a good idea. A rare occasion where having a lower powered device would probably help things