Jem,
I agreed with you about electronics in cars. Then I bought a Mazda 3 with the SkyActiv engine. It has throttle by wire, but it feels normal. For efficiency, it opens the throttle full, and uses variable intake and exhaust valve timing to throttle the engine. It is very efficient on gas, it gets better mpg than my prior econo box. It also has better power.
I am still not used to antilock brakes, and never plan to get auto parking unless I have to. I drive simpler classic cars from the mid 60's too, but the new car is growing on me. I keep my cars very long, time will tell if the new one is reliable.
I am a strong believer that where possible, the systems should mechanically feed through, so control is matained with electronic failure.