i certainly do not believe i'm using a custom action bar...
the only thing i changed was in the Manifest Editor
<uses-sdk android:minSdkVersion="4" />
and i changed it to
<uses-sdk android:minSdkVersion="5" android:targetSdkVersion="19" />
mainly because on my Galaxy S7 my 3 menu dots were missing...
here is a print screen of the action bar on my Amazon Fire 7...which is the way i think it should look....only my Galaxy S7 looks different and has the MORE button