I've not used xcustomlistview, but this should work.
Looking at Erels example code, I believe that even if an item is there you can always click on it. The trick is to disable the panel (item) in the following way.
clv1.GetPanel(0).Enabled = False '0 is the first item, 1 is second item etc
Now in the following sub, check to see if the item is enabled or not. If the item is enabled then execute your code. You do not need an Else option, if you had an Else option it would just be Return.
Sub clv1_ItemClick (Index As Int, Value As Object)
If clv1.GetPanel(Index).Enabled Then
Activity.Title = Value
clv1.AsView.BringToFront
End If
End Sub
I've just quickly utilised Erels example code, so it should work correctly. When you tap the first row, nothing should happen.
Enjoy...