The title of your post mentions ListView, but the content does not; it mentions dbases, by which I assume you mean databases. Are you trying to move items between listviews or records between databases? Some sample code might help your explanation of your problem.
If you are using databases then some terminology might also help. A database contains tables; tables contain records; records contain fields; fields contain values. The sentence "The Value is always the first label and it can happen that 2 are the same, so if I delete one, the other one goes with it because they have the same name." is difficult to understand. But maybe you are talking about labels in a listview, not databases at all.