So, just to put this discussion to closure, I managed to get a clean Form's Title bar with no icon and no title by doing the following:
MyForm.Title = "" does not work, and still assumes the designer created title or default one so the solution is to give it a space, MyForm.Title = " "
in order to not show an icon in the title bar, I cheated, and created a 32x32 pixel png, with only one pixel set to a light color, on a transparent background.