Android Question CustomListView - How To Add Selector Like ListView Have

I switch to CustomListView (because ListView makes in imageview fill and i need to be original size of bitmap) i need to have selector that highlight row when i press up or down on remote control (like listview have automatically when you add it to activity).

Here is code that adds my custom panel with items...but i need to have when i run apk that first row is selected (No. 1), when i press down button on remote controll it needs to have selector on (No. 2) and so on.

In listview i use StateListDrawables that works excellent ( i can change stated when row is selected, pressed or normal (BDNormal, BDPressed) so if i can add this StateListDrawables to customlistview it will be excellent (then i can when row is selected change background color, text background etc)

Here is code