Software Developers Social Status

What's your social Status?

  • Married or in a Stable Relationship

    Votes: 33 76.7%
  • Divorced/ Widowed/ Single

    Votes: 10 23.3%

  • Total voters
    43

lemonisdead

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females prefer other professions then programming
I can't debate (I don't have enough English wording to be clear on that) but that's not true : if we, probably, could have the same interest to programming, just remember that parents could have not chosen to support their daughters to learn programming too. Another thing I felt while in school : we (girls) think a bit differently than men when structuring the information or processes ; this can be so frustrating when you have some male teachers trying to explain and you don't think that he is fully true. No argue here, sorry not to be able to debate more
 

Cableguy

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The objective of this thread was NOT to argue about the Men/Women ratio in programming, but to dismiss the "Wilma" / "Sheldon" images most have about geeks, I mean, programmers.

I guess we can take 2 or 3 conclusions on this thread....

No other RAD tool forum can claim to have it's founder, company CEO and main developer, posting in a chitchat thread like EREL does.
Even the Pro's consider programming as a hobby.
Programmers are NOT socially challenged.

Thank you all that took the time to answer the poll, and posted here
 

AnandGupta

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It is true that young unmarried male geeks ruled the IT profession specially programming, some 30/40 years ago, when I started.
Now it looks like most of them have grown old and got married. Females also started liking programming.

I deduce that initially we were before text/code black/green screen, nothing beautiful or fancy. We tried our best with ASCII arts. Windows happened and then IDE with drag and drop elements to make beautiful and fancier screen/pages, without dirtying one hand in coding. These must have encouraged our fair friends to take the plunge.

So it is equal now. Programming is not a geek job.

Male 54, full time development job, married 25 years, one son, student.
Social activity = FULL in this forum and also some other forums, otherwise do not even remember close relatives name !!

Regards,

Anand
 
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Beja

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Male 61, 3 daughters, full aspects of life .. rough and smooth with joy and pain and travel and love and sorrow.. Life wonders never end.

we (girls) think a bit differently than men when structuring the information or processes ; this can be so frustrating when you have some male teachers trying to explain and you don't think that he is fully true.

Very interesting.
 

EnriqueGonzalez

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Another conclusion is that developers like kids! it seems that no body (married) has one kid or less.

Me and my wife have decided to not have kids at all.

Oh! and where i work, we are 3 programmers and 1 is a woman!
 

AnandGupta

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Forgot to add age, 54. Corrected now.

Regards,

Anand
 

Douglas Farias

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Male, 25 Years old, Married, i dont have kids, but i have 2 Cats :)

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sorex

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44 and male and single.

I don't know what the "pro" here means but I'm IT guy at work (sys admin, programmer (web front/backend, scripting, apps...))
and also as (self employed) second job I do that.
 

RandomCoder

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My story (the short version), I'm 40 years old and have been happily married for the past 13. I was very lucky to find a wonderful woman willing to taken me on with my two children from a previous relationship. We've since had a son together and got two dogs to make our family complete.
I'm considered by friends, family and work colleagues to be a geek which I try my best to live up to, I'm forever fixing broken mobile phones and laptops, but I hate being called a nerd! ;)
Having a busy family, a full time job and other commitments doesn't leave much time for programming. At the moment I'm currently wanting to build a motion simulator as I like to relax by playing racing games like Project Cars and Dirt Rally on the PC. My other hobby is DIY. :D
 

Descartex

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Male, 39 yo, married 9 years ago but on our relationship for the last 20 years. We met at the kindergarten (when we both were about 3-4 yo). 2 kids of 7 and 2. A 1 year old Beagle and a budgie so I think we are complete. Hobbyist and partial time pro.
 

ocalle

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Male 54, HOB/PRo, 2 kids (both pro) , married since 25 years 70% happy 30% un.
Like ride mountain bike as a hell, im the the yellow equipment.
 

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Star-Dust

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Male, 51 years old, happily maried for 20 years. Two sons 18 and 14. Thinking on a Plan B just in case my actual job fails. B4A can be the solution. :)
Learning to develop, for some it did not work even as Plan A ... I do not know if it's a good idea to have it like plane B :p joke!
 

Ferbis

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:) I will clarify my comment. I have been working on IT for almost 27 years and the only single thing I most like is programming and believe me I have done many things. I said programming in b4a could be an option because not always what you like is what it works :( and
.... I have a family.
 
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Andris

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Male, 69, super-stable-married for 46 years, 1 jazz-singer daughter (shameless shout-out promo for arjanaandivan.com lol). Biomedical engineer. Have worked for myself ever since I assembled a Heathkit H100 PC in 1983 and realized the PC's potential to redefine the world of work ... and never went back to an office cubicle again. This has given me the freedom of discretionary time ... actually making it possible to develop my public and social side just enough to confuse people as to whether I'm a true geek or not ... :D

When the subject of geekiness does come up, I describe myself to others as "a high tech artist," which seems to shatter their preconceptions somewhat and make them think that knowing me is actually a positive asset for them (haha). When you think about it, the mental processes we go through in writing code, or taking a widget from conception to prototype, is identical to that of an artist in front of a canvas, or a novelist writing a book. A novelist can sit there alone for years, moving around blocks of sentences on the page, branching into subroutines of character development, reading it all back repeatedly to see how it flows, scrapping entire chapters and rewriting when needed, until it feels finished. And at the end of it, only a few copies may be sold (like our apps haha). The journey is the biggest part of the reward. Are novelists ever referred to as geeks? No.

So we are geeks, but we are also "high tech artists." It makes us easier to understand by those on the "outside." But always wear the geek label proudly. It's an amazing experience that few will ever have or understand.

(By the way, speaking of that Heathkit PC, here's the first hard drive I bought for it in 1985. Was so awesome. 10MB of storage for $500. Gates said it was all I'd ever need in my whole life. Ran so hot I had to use it externally, with a home-brew fan controlled by a thermal switch :))

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